Showing posts with label Social Skills. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Social Skills. Show all posts

June 5, 2016

Electronic Devices Inhibit Children's Learning Speech and Social Skills




[From article]
Parents’ immersion in smartphones has left some neglected children starting primary school unable to hold conversations, new research warns.
Almost a third of children starting school are not ready for the classroom, with many lacking social skills, having speech problems or not toilet trained, the survey of senior primary school staff has found.
Teachers warned of children suffering from a lack of attention and interaction from parents obsessed with their smartphones.
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One head teacher said: “There is limited parent/child interaction. Four year-olds know how to swipe a phone but haven't a clue about conversations”.
Another primary school leader warned: “We are having more and more children entering our early years stage with delayed speech and a lack of school readiness.
“I feel much of this is down to challenging family circumstances alongside the rise of mobile phones and other mobile technology, which means parents are more often to be seen on the phone than talking to their children.”
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The State of Education report found four-fifths of teachers were worried about poor social skills or children having speech problems. More than two-thirds had seen children lacking “self-help skills”.
Teachers also reported levels of reading, writing and numeracy were lower than they should be.
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"An agreed definition of what 'school-readiness' means, could be the first step to helping schools, parents and early years practitioners identify what national or localised support is required to meet this growing issue."
Gareth Jenkins director of poverty policy at Save The Children said the report "provides yet further evidence that too many children are not getting the support they need to thrive in their early years".
He said: "Research for Save The Children has shown that falling behind in their early years can drastically limit a child's chances of success later on, affecting results throughout school, and even earnings as adults.”
Last year, a leading child psychiatrist suggested parents enforce a “talk not tap” rule at the dinner table to stop smartphones and tablets taking over children’s lives.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/education/2016/05/09/parents-smartphones-harming-childrens-ability-to-hold-conversati/

Parents' smartphones harming children's ability to hold conversation, say teachers
Ben Farmer
9 MAY 2016 • 11:06AM

July 7, 2015

Teenagers Beat Illinois Teen With Social Disabilities



Gavin Stone
[From article]
A teenage boy with Asperger's syndrome who was viciously beaten for being different has decided not to press charges against his attackers - so long as they take the time to learn about his condition.
Gavin Joseph, a recent high school graduate from New Baden, Illinois, was beaten at the end of June by a gang of other teenagers who mocked him for spending most of his time alone.
He was left with a concussion, a bruised esophagus, a fracture on his nose and a huge black eye in the heartless beating - but decided not hold back from taking legal action.
Instead, Gavin made a 20-minute video for his assailants explaining the realities of living with Asperger's, a type of autism, and asked only that they watch it with their families present.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3150642/Asperger-s-teen-left-concussion-black-eye-bullies-decides-NOT-press-charges-asks-watch-video-condition.html

Asperger's teen left with concussion and black eye by bullies decides NOT to press charges - and asks only that they watch video he made about living with his condition and 'see the damage they did'
Gavin Joseph, of New Baden, Illinois, was attacked in late June
Peers who thought he was 'creepy' and 'weird' lured him out and beat him
After attack he was left with painful wounds - but isn't pressing charges
Instead wants attackers to see 20-minute video he made about Asperger's
Gavin's mother shared account of attack, saying she was 'so proud' of his reaction
By KIERAN CORCORAN FOR DAILYMAIL.COM
PUBLISHED: 00:51 EST, 6 July 2015 | UPDATED: 08:05 EST, 6 July 2015

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[From article]
Gavin Stone, an Illinois teen who was diagnosed with the disorders as a child, has difficulty with everyday interactions and tends to keep himself isolated, his according to a June 30 Facebook post by his mother, Cortnie,who added that her son can sometimes unintentionally appear rude, impatient, “weird,” detached or uninterested.
Cortnie shared a series of photos with her post, featuring Gavin with a swollen, bruised face that she said was the aftermath of a group of kids talking about how it was "'weird' that Gavin is always by himself, attending events alone and watching people, and it was 'creepy' how he wanted to be friends with people he didn’t know.”
“On Friday night, another kid that overheard that conversation decided to take matters into his own hands and become judge and jury, and this is the result of that,” Cortnie posted. “He didn’t ask questions, didn’t get to know Gavin, never met him, and didn’t give him a chance to leave. He was called to meet someone, surrounded by people he didn’t know, choked, punched, and left laying [SIC] on the pavement so he would ‘learn his lesson.’”

http://www.foxnews.com/health/2015/07/07/teen-with-aspergers-allegedly-beaten-by-strangers-wants-suspects-to-learn-from/?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+foxnews%2Fmost-popular+%28Internal+-+Most+Popular+Content%29

Teen with Asperger’s allegedly beaten by strangers wants suspects to learn from him
Published July 07, 2015

May 29, 2015

Silicon Valley Geniuses Awkward With Women Socially




[From article]
While being a virgin at 40 may be extreme, Dan is one of many tech guys who are driving business for the sex therapists of the San Francisco Bay Area. The counselors I’ve spoken with say that anywhere between 50 to 90 percent of their clientele are tech workers, and the vast majority of them are heterosexual men. (Tech employees were estimated in 2011 to account for only 12 percent of workers in the Bay Area.)
This is in part a result of techies’ higher-than-average salaries, which allow them to pay for therapy, particularly when it comes to non-traditional counseling that isn’t covered by insurance. There’s something else at play here, though: In general, tech workers are more vulnerable to issues around love and intimacy, according to several local sex therapists I’ve interviewed. The reasons for this are wide-ranging, but in Dan’s particular case, it resulted from being tagged as a prodigy at a young age. He excelled in science and was encouraged to pursue it to the exclusion of all else.
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“To his mind, and his processing, there was no desire to prioritize anything other than that.” She spends much of their sessions trying to teach him the very basics of talking to women.
That’s a frequent focus for the sex therapists in Silicon Valley and surrounding areas. “[These men] often spend their time in environments that are mostly male, like in school and tech offices,” explains another therapist, Celeste Hirschman. “So they don’t have a lot of practice just relating to women, period, let alone learning how to meet, pickup, seduce, touch.”
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Another common issue that these therapists encounter with tech clients is they treat sex like a line of broken code in need of debugging, or a mathematical equation.
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She’s seeing a couple now in which both partners are techies and the wife only wants to have quickies so that she can get back to her long to-do list.

http://www.vocativ.com/culture/society/the-sex-therapists-of-silicon-valley/

Sex And The Valley: Tech Guys Seek Expert Love Advice From Therapists
Tech guys are flocking to experts to learn how to talk to women and fix sexless marriages
Author Tracy Clark-Flory
Posted: 05/29/15 09:05 EDT

February 8, 2014

Strong Factor Blocking Upward Mobility? Single Parents


[From article]
The study, “Where is the Land of Opportunity?: The Geography of Intergenerational Mobility in the United States,” authored by Harvard economist Raj Chetty and colleagues from Harvard and Berkeley, explores the community characteristics most likely to predict mobility for lower-income children. The study specifically focuses on two outcomes: absolute mobility for lower-income children—that is, how far up the income ladder they move as adults; and relative mobility—that is, how far apart children who grew up rich and poor in the same community end up on the economic ladder as adults. When it comes to these measures of upward mobility in America, the new Harvard study asks: Which “factors are the strongest predictors of upward mobility in multiple variable regressions”?

http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2014/01/new_harvard_study_where_is_the_land_of_opportunity_finds_broken_families.html

Family Matters
What’s the most important factor blocking social mobility? Single parents, suggests a new study.
By W. Bradford Wilcox
JAN. 22 2014 3:55 PM

December 4, 2013

Video Games Beneficial To Youth




[From article]
To many it might seem counter-intuitive, but researchers have found that playing video games – including violent shooter titles – may boost children’s learning, health and social skills.
This conclusion comes from a review of studies into the influence of video games that will be published in the American Psychological Association’s flagship journal, American Psychologist.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2513832/Study-finds-video-games-good-mental-health.html

Video games are GOOD for you: Even violent shoot-em-ups boost learning, health and social skills, finds study
Findings published in the prestigious journal American Psychologist
Authors say findings have 'critical implications for education'
Other benefits include improved reasoning, a sharper memory and lower anxiety levels
By TED THORNHILL
Daily Mail (UK)
PUBLISHED: 09:50 EST, 26 November 2013 | UPDATED: 11:04 EST, 26 November 2013

January 2, 2012

Why To Learn Digital Communications

http://www.shellypalmer.com/2011/12/the-attack-of-the-pridefully-ignorant/

The Attack of the Pridefully Ignorant
December 30, 2011
By Shelly Palmer

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http://www.shellypalmer.com/2011/12/are-you-employable-in-2012/

Are You Employable in 2012?
December 23, 2011
By Shelly Palmer

August 23, 2011

Politicians Often Lack Social Skills

These descriptions of Nixon are compatible with the description of Nixon in Stephen Ambrose's biography. Ambrose goes further stating that Nixon was clueless about the personal lives of his wife and his daughters. He was all business focused only on politics. Other profilers state that people who succeed in politics like people, and want to help others. What some find difficult to accept is that having these good qualities politicians are often also medacious, greedy, spineless and have a relaxed rectitude.

http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2011/08/23/mitt-romney-john-kerry-and-more-painfully-awkward-politicians.html

The Awkwardness Olympics
Aug 23, 2011 1:00 AM EDT
Daily Beast
Jill Lawrence